Advice from Anne: How to Settle Down in a New City/Country Quickly

Moving to a new place can be difficult. SMAS Student Anne has advice that can help: How to Settle Down in a New City/Country Quickly

Hi, I’m Anne.I have three kids, a 13 year old boy, 7 and 2 year old girls.  I have lived in four countries in the last 10 years - China, Singapore, Australia, and the United States.

I know it’s very hard for your family move to a new place. There are different cultures, different languages, different foods.

Let me share some experience with you that might help you.

First, find a place.
 

The first thing is find a place to live. You will need to consider the following things:

* Distance to the workplace
* School
* Medical treatment, includes dental
* Shops

All things come down to one point, budget.

Usually, companies are  in the busy business districts.

If you are a couple without kids, there are a lot of choices, such as apartments close to your work place, or scenic houses in the countryside.

If you have children, you will have to consider the schools. Remember, a safe, good school district usually is more expensive.

You can always use Google to do some research about rthe area and schools.

Second, school registration
 

Because we want our children to get into routines as soon as possible, instead of just doing nothing at home,we will need to register at the school right after moving into the house.

At the time of registration, the school will ask for a physical examination, so the next step is to find a family doctor.

Third, a family doctor
 

In Singapore and Australia, we can find a family doctor nearby and get a check up. But in the United States, you will need to find a doctor who accepts the insurance company of your employer.

After the children go to school, we can take our time to do the following:

* Get a driver’s license. Usually you will need a local driver’s license if you will stay for over 6 months.
* Buy a car. You will need to rent a car before you buy your own.
*  Find a dentist.
*  Find out about nearby shops, restaurants, parks.
*  Find out after class programs for children.

Each community will have some apps that are convenient for neighbors to contact. For example, nextdoor, to get informed and get involved.

Don't worry too much. Don’t stress yourself out, enjoy the journey of discovering new things. For Families

For children, I understand it was a little harsh for them in a new school, to make new friends. In particular, they also speak languages that you do not understand.

Please tell kids:

*  I love you, I understand your situation.
*  You will learn new languages very quickly and your adaptability is very strong.
*  Believe in yourselves and do your best.
*  Don’t try to please anyone.

Hopes this helps you.

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Thanks a lot. Thank you, Anne!